“Momma, there is poop on my finger.” Yes, that’s what he said. My darling 2 year old stood behind me as I was in the middle of a conversation and told me there was poop on his finger. Yep! During last week’s snow storm in Virginia a young man came by and offered to shovel the snow. Titus, unknown to me, stuck his finger in his pull-up and it emerged with poop. Of course, being 2 years old, you don’t wait until your mother is finished talking to someone to make her aware of the poop. Nope! You interrupt her and proudly announce, “There is poop on my finger!” I turned around and Titus stood behind me in a T-shirt and pull-up, (his outfit of choice) with his finger pointed towards me. The young man laughed and told me he could come back. “Titus! What did you do (I’ve learned that mom’s ask ridiculous questions to their kids)? He smiled and proudly announced again, “There’s poop on my finger!” Needless to say, I cleaned him up and his finger is fresh again…for the moment. He’s actually in his room right now, so he may have poop on his finger again; one can never tell.
Why am I grossing you out about poop? Well, it dawned on me; the Bible says we should approach the throne with child-like faith. Okay, so how many times do people tell you what the Bible says and they misquote or can’t tell you where the scripture comes from? So, let me be more specific, Matthew 18:3 reads “And he said: ‘Truly I tell you, unless you change and become like little children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven.’” I probably shouldn’t type poop in the same sentence as a Bible verse but this is my reality for the moment.
Children have a way of coming to you and believing without doubt that you will help them. Titus believed I would stop what I was doing to address his need. If he didn’t, he wouldn’t have come to me. I neglect time with dear friends because at times I discredit the value of leaning on others. I figure my friends are too busy so I try to tackle things on my own instead of asking for a listening ear to vent, a shoulder to cry on or a good laugh or reasoning. Even more crucial, I forego prayer time and try to handle things on my own instead of approaching God and asking for help.
The moral of the story: When you have poop on your finger, just say something! It’s almost like we would rather walk around in our stinky mess than to ask God for help. Watch God lead you through difficult situations when you fully lean on Him and trust Him with childlike faith. Watch God use the people in your life to walk through the dark times with you. You’re never alone. Believe me when I say that, YOU’RE NEVER ALONE!
Just speak up and “get the poop off your finger!”
Amen!!!! I’d like to urge to you vent to your friends… it’s helped me so much in marriage and parenthood.
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Yes! That’s so true and great advice Toya! I have learned the importance and the need to talk to others. Sometimes it feels good to just vent without seeking input.
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Great blog!! This message is very relevant and applicable! Thank you for the reminder!
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Thanks DeNay! This is a reminder that I need daily. Thank God for the lessons He teaches us, even through children!
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Love it!!!!! Thanks so much for this!!! This Message is right on time for me.
Lord I love that Titus!!!!
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I needed this reminder too! Thank God for his lessons, right?! Titus is a piece of work!!!
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Absolutely! Great reminder.
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Thank God for reminding us how to approach Him! -childlike faith
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Thanks so much for this message……. like you stated it’s okay to vent to others and talk to God! Loving this blog
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Yes, when going through something I have learned that isolation is the worst feeling and a trap..we just have to speak up! Im happy to hear you’re enjoying reading. Praise God!
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I love this! Definitely so true! I will be like Titus! LORD help me with this “poop on my finger”! Beautifully written ladybug! Love you all!
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Yes! Get it all off!! Lol!!! And when we find ourselves with more, we will go back for help!
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Well said! I’ll be sharing this blog with my friends as a reminder. ❤ this!
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Thank you Autumn!!!! I appeciate your support. ❤❤
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❤️❤️❤️❤️ I love this!! He sends us people to assist us all through this life; I’m a firm believer of that, but the choice of utilizing His vessels is our own for a time. Titus is a vessel to you and through the joys of you parenting him, we all get to laugh and learn. Great job, Tiya…thank you for being a vessel! And I must add I simply adore my T Willy!!!
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Im so thankful for the people God places in my life and for the reminders He gives me to speak up when I need help, a good laugh or a long talk! Your T. Willy adores you and hes definitely teaching me a lesson every day!
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Thanks for the reminder!! I will no longer continue to walk around with poop on my finger! 😉
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Yes! Same here..I pray we get it off as soon as we see it! 😊😊
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